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someone has a crush…

i love thinking about kokomi’s crush on saiki sm, this isn’t particularly a ship post? I don’t ship them, but you are free to and interpret this as you like terusai shippers!

one of the few teenage girl experiences she has, being genuinely interested in someone when you’re the prettiest girl in the world isn’t easy i can imagine

so i think its adorable she gets to have this one experience, a crush!!!! she’s so nervous, shy, when she think about him alone!

and she’s so confused!! she’s the prettiest girl ever why doesn’t he like her? why must she get so flustered over some guy! so confusing so genuine

Very cute, turning into her fanboys that sends her love letters, she must be an expert in writing them herself by now

and no she is definitely not sending them!!! and a few have gone missing.. I wonder who took them.. (HINT HINT M*K*T*)

anyway here’s some extras!

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Happy 2023!

To celebrate I’m now posting a list of every person I crushed on in 2022! It’s long.

I've never done anything with anyone aged 19 as of now - not even a kiss - and I'm totally fine with that. It just rubs me the wrong way if people think you're a failure if you didn't do it before you're 20.

My older sibling once wondered whether my brother and I - both younger - were asexual because we've never dated anyone. Like - stfu. Leave us be lmao. We just wanna focus on our own little happy goals and interests.

Especially since they stated that they'd think of it as weird if someone had no children once they are 30 or married or whatever. Lol.

Especially since personally, I have trust issues and body image issues and I wouldn't just want to fuck or be in a relationship for the sake of it? Imma take my lifetime if need be - better to do it when you're comfortable and ready.

It’s been said before but we really need to normalise the idea of not having been in a relationship / having sex / dating before your 20’s because it is literallyyyy so young and it absolutely doesn’t make anyone weird for not having had that experience before so I don’t understand why we get off shaming people for something so common

Gilderoy Lockhart

Another Ravenclaw embarrassment, Gilderoy Lockhart’s biggets lessons to us were more lessons to Hermione: that crushes aren’t real, and that it’s important to look past the surface of people and how they aren’t always what they seem; while very similar these two lessons are two important and different beast life stories to learn.

Attractive and intelligent were two qualities Lockhart had but like anyone who has ever had a crush, Hermione filled in the gaps she didn’t know about Lockart’s personality with qualities and explanations that could fit, and ones she also admired.

Hermione thinks: Lockhart wants to get some hands on experience (when he released and then left them to ‘round up’ the Cornish Pixies

She fills this in because she likes to be independent and smart. This happens to everyone, and unfortunately for some more than once. Crushes are different than true relationships with depth. This is also why we should evaluate all of our relationships as time goes by. This is because people can grow distant and people change and just because we connected with someone once or had the same values doesn’t mean we do now. These are relationships that without pain or malice we can let go.

Similarly, certain things about Lockhart just didn’t add up. Yes, he wrote autobiographies, but not one other person from his cases or towns that he saved ever came forward, joined him on tour, or admitted to have been save by him and was a fan. Given his charm and ‘wanting to help others”, this doesn’t fit even the part of his personality he promoted: where he would have wanted to seem more accessible and like the “every-man”, and therefore better than the everyman. No one confirming his stories or telling his historic and impressive saves as a victim are two crucial clues that show have allowed even the distant observer insight into the fraud he was.

So Dumbledore is correct, “there is plenty to be learned even from a bad teacher: what not to do, how not to be” and I cannot help but feel this was especially true of a lesson to give to Harry Potter, probably more than any other lesson. That no one, for talent, intelligence, beauty or charm, is better than anyone else

Being aro/ace is so weird

I could literally walk past the most beautiful, heart stopping, jaw-dropping, astonishing, fabulously attractive, regal, ethereal, drop dead gorgeous real person on the planet and think:

‘‘𝘞𝘰𝘸, 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮!’’ but the moment I see an absurd, insane, and unattractive fictional character I’m like:

‘‘ Marry me rn. We are married’’

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This is the first time I've edited a photo like this. Hope y'all like it. ❤

don't you love it when you accidentally fall for one of your closest guy friends, who also happens to be the first guy you've liked in over five years, and you spent the past two months thinking you had a chance w him and for the past year and a half people betting on when you guys would start dating and then you finally tell your parents about him and for the first time in your life they love and approve of the person you like and literally on the same day you find out he's actually been dating your friend for the past few months and no one ever told you and then after that you find out he's liked you since he met you but he thought you were lesbian this whole time so he never even bothered with you bc he's a respectful man who would never cross boundaries and then one of your mutual friends tells you that if you asked him out first he would've chosen you over your friend? bc i totally sure do :/

Having a crush is just so embarrassing. Like wym I'm smiling at my phone, all he said was hi??? Did I seriously just kick my feet like a stereotypical teenage girl because he called me pretty???? Wym I'm literally checking my phone every 5 seconds to see if he's replied yet????? That's so cringe??????

Yall ever have that friend where it's like, you don't have a crush on them and you're totally fine just being friends but also if they suddenly told you they liked you, you'd totally date them?