Compassionate - Blog Posts

im your emotional sponge

i met a girl from Bandung, named Tami. We had a good convo (i think good here bc she could absorb my feelings)

"you are a very emphatic person. Be cautious it can be your own weakness".

Somehow it's true.

And also I expect a person can respond to me as much as I do to them effortlessly. Her name is Kharis, I owe her an apology. I used her to be my emotional sponge bc she fell in love with me. it never be wise to take her for granted. I was toxic to her. She's a pure soul and deserves love (hopefully she finds someone who treats her right). If we ever meet again in another life, i won't mind being her soulmate.

let's go back to the main topic. being an emotional sponge to others means you have the skill to acknowledge their feelings. im unlearning that everyone's feelings matter since in this cruel world, boundaries should exist. you should be able to distinguish whether things are tolerable.

i am completely done with accepting that being compassionate is not a sin. i have to put in "right" amount, dont I? wont blame my placements (yes, my sun - moon - risings are all water signs), this is something i can manage to.

Here a good tip for an emotional sponge like me:

"Visualize A Glass Wall

There are a number of techniques that you can use to keep other people’s energy separate. One technique includes visualizing a glass wall between yourself and the other person. The glass wall allows you to see the other person’s emotions. However, the emotions are not able to penetrate the wall. When they hit the wall, they bounce back to the other person, not to you. You can see and acknowledge the feelings, but you do not absorb them. This technique can work in large crowds as well. You can picture yourself surrounded by a glass wall as you move through the crowd. Although you may notice their energy, you do not have to take it on as it cannot get through the wall."

Please check here if you need guidance: https://keirbradycounseling.com/empath-and-absorbing-other-peoples-emotions/

Help Save Coco - Now Fully Funded

Friends,

 With a harrowing start to the new year, Coco’s (mis)adventures took a dramatic turn on New Years Eve 2020. Right down to the wire the final hours of the year we found that Coco had wiggled out of his E-Collar and scratched open a portion of the stitches from his shoulder wound. This prompted an immediate trip down to the 24 hour Emergency Animal Referral Hospital, where Coco’s heavily draining shoulder was clean and stapled after a massive waiting period that lasted from approximately 8PM New Years Eve to just over 3AM New Years Day.

Yesterday Coco’s campaign became fully funded with tremendous thanks to a whole host of generous, compassionate and big-hearted people leaving us in hysterical fits of happy tears. Overwhelmed with relief and gratitude, we are humbled by the power of people to help those whom at that moment are unable to help themselves. 

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