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part of being aroace is going "we're too young to date, we're just kids" for most of your life because it was true. and then you're in high school and suddenly everyone is dating, and you're still going "we're too young to date, we're just kids". and then your classmates are fucking in the school bathrooms and your friends are coming to school covered in hickeys and your best friend has a boyfriend that she plans to marry, and you're still going "we're too young for this, we're just kids." And then you realize that you're not a kid anymore, you're not too young for this, and that you're just... different

This is giving me major aro vibes 🐸💚

I really hope no one takes this in a mean way??

For Valentine's Day my local library set up a romance free collection in the YA section, complete with little ace and aro colored hearts with silly "eww" "nope" "not for me" messages, and I for one think that is incredibly asexy of them.

🎀 Daily Affirmation 🎀

My life gets better with each & every day

🍒 cute merch

🍒 my youtube channel: dream girl glow up

☁️ how to be the prize

☁️ how to get princess treatment

☁️ why women should never pay on a date / pt 2 / pt 3

Update me, disturb me, tell me about your day. I love all that.

Green Flags in Communication 💚💬

"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."

This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.

"I don't want you to feel alone in this."

This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.

"I've been struggling with ___”

This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.

"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."

This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.

"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"

This is an example of constructive communication.

"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"

This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.

"I appreciate when you ___.”

Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.

"I didn't handle that well."

This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.

"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."

Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.

"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."

Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.

"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"

It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.

"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."

Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.

"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."

Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.

"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"

Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.

"I trust your judgment on this."

Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.

"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."

Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.

"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"

Validates the other person's feelings.

"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."

Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.

"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."

Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.

Here lies AKHTS. She never scored.

had a vision to make this a gif while watching the digital ticket

i was stalking starkids instagram and this made me laugh so i wanted to share it. those crazy eyes tho

Dude this guy really does not like musicals

I know we all know this and it’s not subtle but

“If I loved you I would show it”

And you know how she has to show it??!??

YOU KNOW HOW?!??

POINTING A GUN AT HIS FREAKING HEAD!!!!

Like sure, you know you’re the thing she wants most, but you dont get to enjoy it very long.

educating the youth

"Don't you want your own family?"

Of course I want it. Just another kind of family.

My dream is to have a house full of friends, where we can eat all together then playing cards until late in the night, laughing and singing. Or where we can have a hot chocolate and a deep conversation. A safe and welcoming space for me and my loved ones.

I want an additional bed to host those who come from afar and a big kitchen table for lunches and dinners.

I want someone to cook pies with, to travel with, to spend the Christmas holidays with.

I want to be loved and to love. That's a simple dream, really. That's my concept of family

Your reminder that there is no timeline for discovering your identity! You can know at 10, you can know at 100! And you don’t ever have to figure it out of you don’t want to.

Friendly reminder that they kissed.

Friendly reminder that they kissed.

Shout out to the aspecs who don’t want to kiss anyone at midnight

Shout out to the aspecs who want to kiss but don’t want anyone

Shout out to aspecs who’re going to asked why they aren’t kissing anyone at midnight

Shout out to aspecs who’re asked “where’s your date?” Every minute

so I think I fucked up my food yesterday and told my friend which resulted in a funny conversation happened and here is an artistic rendition

not to mention any attraction I have is only to women and fictional men, and am trans so I mean technically agender but I like the term too

merry christmas to everybody in the closet. merry christmas to everyone who will be goung to church tomorrow and feeling a little out of place. merry christmas to the folks who dont talk to their families anymore. have a good day to everyone who cant stand christmas. it can be a rough season, but things change and they do get better. and even then, you’re allowed to feel a little sucky about it

frostbite

yeah sex is great but have you ever been cutting wrapping paper and the scissors do that thing

My Christmas hat may only be yellow but in my heart it is aroace flag coded

Merry Christmas to those who celebrate! And happy holidays, merry year, and stay safe to the rest of y’all!

It's dangerous to go alone, take this

hallucination!reader (stanford pines x reader - gravity falls)

general fic idea first snippet second snippet (ford's nightmare rant) part one

Updated: 13 october 2024

Something you should always remember about every single person you see on this site is that they are a tumblr user. They are the kind of person who uses tumblr

cttos <33 pinterest

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Btw y'all cooked with the term "squish"... one of the greatest terms in existence.